After an older man showed up and motioned that maybe I should pay them I played dumb and scampered off into the night shouting 'ma-salaam' as the standary goodbye. It means 'go in peace' and I like the way it sounds. I didn't get to use it this time, but when I tell someone that I might meet them again we both say 'in-sha-Allah' which means 'if god wills it' and it's a comon thing to say about sporting events, romance, and bus schedules.
When in Egypt I traveled with several groups of backpackers and if the group included a girl then you were sure to get offers of camels. The local men think it's cute to offer me herds of camels in exchange for my female companion and sometimes make direct offers to her of 10,000 or more humpbacked beasts. On one particular occasion I said that she wasn't for sale but I could be be bought for enough camels, to which he replied "I don't like, I give you one fish". Should I be insulted by that?
I also want to address the American in the Middle East issue. Politics are a big deal here because it's literally a matter of life and death to so many people. America has a bit of a reputation around the world and I was a bit hesitent at first to share my country of origin because I didn't know enough about our historical interactions with the countries that I'm visiting. The fact is the people judge your government but still are not prejudiced against the citizens. They know something about crappy governing around here and don't want to blame themselves either. Most people watch American movies and are intensly interested to know a native citizen and maybe some day to move there to work. They tell me that if they help me now, maybe they will recieve help themselves when they come to our shores, 'in-sha-Allah'. The only thing you can really say to aggrevate them is to say that you have been to Israel as they really do believe that it's their sworn enemy and it's not just a bad government but a bad place altogether. It's best to avoid the subject completely but because I'm not going it's not too hard.
What other run-ins with locals have I had? The other day I sat to have tea and a hand gesture/city name conversation with a man who told me that he drives a cab, has 2 wives and 6 children, spends most of the day at the tea house to avoid them, loves America, and we discussed my itinerary and lack of children. Another time I rode the bus with a Syrian oil worker who summers in Croatia, studied in Yugoslavia, hates communism, and thinks that I should go into the oil business with him because we drive the same car. On another day I spent an hour discussing America's heath care problems with a Jordanian man who seems to know more about the issue than most Americans. The people here are informed, intellectually curious, and so hospitable that I'm constantly taken by surprise. The foreigners that I meet are interesting too, but I just love the people of these countries and I hope the trend continues throughout the journey.